Diana Boston

I had an abortion when I was in my late teens. I got pregnant through a diaphragm and the father was a cocaine addict. He wouldn't quit and I knew that if I went to to full term that I would be setting up that child for a life of misery. Not only that, but a cocaine addict for a father. It was the most difficult decision I ever made and one that I stick by today. I was not ready for a child emotionally or socially. Afterwards I made my life dream come true and went to a very prestigious music school. I want to take this opportunity to thank everyone at Planned Parenthood and my mother, who understood and stood by my choice. Also, I want to thank my friends who helped me recover afterwards. The purpose of Roe v Wade was to make abortions CLEAN and SAFE so that women wouldn't die trying to rid themselves of a pregnancy. Women don't make this decision lightly and it's not a big party to have one either. It's painful and it's difficult. One last thing: Pro-life is a misnomer. Those who say they are 'pro-life' are really saying they don't value life. If they valued life then they would value the lives of the women who are put in extremely difficult situations and who have to make that choice. Much luv to my systers out there who have made the hardest choice and who stand firmly on the earth with integrity.

Diana Boston
How old are you: Between 36 and 42

Country of birth: Canada

Year of abortion: 1991

Country of abortion: United States

Type of abortion: in a clinic or hospital with surgery

Planned Parenthood was incredibly great to me and my partner at the time. My abortion was done at 6.5 weeks so it was very quick and easy.

Reason for abortion: my education, my age (too young or old), problems with my relationship, my personal reasons for not wanting a child

Feelings about abortion: disappointed, resolved, relieved, confused, sure

I stand by my choice. I was not ready and there was no way I could've had a child. I knew I was doing the right thing. I wish I had gotten pregnant later on but contraception is not 100% although it is the best way to prevent unwanted pregnancy.

I was angry at my partner for not being responsible during that time. It all fell on my shoulders and he wasn't incredibly supportive. He agreed with my decision but he wasn't in the right place for a child and neither was I.

After the procedure I felt this amazing sense of relief and my body was so tired but I felt good. I was sure of my decision and had great counselling by PP.

Religion other

Children: i have no children