nathalieI had an abortion Becous i was 17 years young with absolutly no clou about how to rase a child to becom a happy and healty adult.
How old are you: Between
24
and 30
Country of birth: Netherlands
Year of abortion:
2003
Country of abortion: Netherlands
luckely verry good
Type of abortion: in a clinic or hospital with surgery
good
Reason for abortion: my personal reasons for not wanting a child, financial issues, my age (too young or old), mental health reasons
At the time i was 17 years young. I was addicted to drugs as was my partner. I was mentaly unstable i was not taking care of myself or my hygene. I had jobs on and off (more off then on )and was not even able to asure a stable life for myself. All together i was in no condition to rase a child let alone to rase it to becom a happy healty and stable adult.
Feelings about abortion: irresponsible, relieved, sad, grieving
Becomming pregnant is something that in my country can easily be prevented that is why i did feel verry irresponsible. Having the abortion did make me sad becous i love childeren and i realy would want them when the time is there. Last but not least it was a great relieve when it was done becous i realy would not have known how to rase a child with my addiction at the time and the relationship i was in. Stil at times i grieve over what could have bin but i know i made the right disicion.
Religion other
Children: i have no children
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