Natalie ReedI choose to end my pregnancy in June 2004. I am not ashamed and I refuse to feel guilty. I am on birth control now and never plan to have to go threw this again.I know I made the right decision considering my circumstances. I refuse to carry the burden of being a single parent, never having the opportunity to better myself threw pursuing a college education, and the financial and emotional burden of raising a child alone. I did'nt want to continue the relationship i was in. And I did'nt want to left holding the bag so to speak. I think a lot of people have strong pro life opinions until a crisis pregnancy happens to them. Then they have to rethink their point of view because it affects them directly. Ideally, I think all women should practice reliable contraception 100% of the time so they won't have to go threw having an abortion anyway. But those women who are in similar circumstances as mine should have the right to consider having an abortion. I don't have a pic to upload.
How old are you: Between
27
and 33
Country of birth: United States
Year of abortion:
2004
Country of abortion: United States
Most people don't know i had an abortion. The ones who do know are sympathetic and understanding.I was surprised to find out alot of women of all ages and backgrounds share the same story.I would never discuss this with family members because they are prolife.
Type of abortion: by myself
I was in a lot of pain since I used Cytotec by myself in the privacy of my own home. I had nausea, extreme cramps and vomiting. I felt like my groin was on fire with pain. For about 3 hours. Then the symptoms went away within a day.This is definitely not easy, but if you have to do it and you can't afford to go to a clinic I would highly recommend it. Just make sure you don't get an infection or a high fever for a prolonged period of time. A long fever can be a sign of infection in the uterus. I am not a doctor, but I read a lot about it so I would know what could possibly go wrong. Read extensively about it before doing a home abortion.
Reason for abortion: financial issues, my education, problems with my relationship, my personal reasons for not wanting a child
I don't plan to have kids. I have plans to attend college. I can't provide for a child. I am unmarried, and don't believe in raising a child alone. Also I am a victim of child abuse and I don't feel I would ever make a good mother.
Feelings about abortion: trapped, resolved, relieved, afraid
I never doubted my decision to end the pregnancy. I knew I was doing the right thing considering my difficult life. After it was all over, and I knew I was no longer pregnant I was so relieved. I would never wish this situation on any woman. It is a horrible situation and you feel totally alone with your decision. I have never told anyone in my family. Not that I am ashamed, but I know they would not be supportive of my decision. I just wish all of the shame and secrecy surrounding abortion would end. It would make women's lives a lot easier. Good luck to all the women who are facing the same dilemma.
Religion no religion
Children: i have no children
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